Dating a fetishist can upset sexual codes and practices. But don’t panic, it is possible … and not as scary as it looks.

To find out what fetishists like, you might as well ask them directly. Baptiste, 27, and Xavier, 25 , have agreed to reveal their fantasies to the editorial staff of Girls.fr . The first is a leg fetishist. “Whole legs, feet included,” he says. At the start of their relationship, he had decided not to tell his beloved about it. “I let this little ritual of caresses and massages settle in until it was she who said to me:  ‘Aren’t you a bit of a fetishist?’ “

Xavier, he devotes a cult to female feet but his partner is not aware . “This is something I wouldn’t dare to bring up with her. A long time ago I kissed her feet, it was very exciting but she found it weird. I never did it again because it was. embarrassed her. I would have liked us to take more advantage of it, “he admits. The young man admits re treading his fetish “so that it does not become disabling”. However, he clarifies that his love of the feet does not prevent him from being aroused by other parts of the female body.

Fetishists are not sex freaks. Xavier’s monomania has something almost romantic about it. “I don’t have to see the whole foot to feel something. Just seeing an ankle, a heel – if it’s pretty of course – can be exciting,” he explains. “I have an irrepressible and permanent desire to caress, to massage, his legs and his feet, ” says Baptiste for his part, in a loving and tender speech.

Sometimes a little is enough to please them. ” My excitement is multiplied at the sight of a foot in pantyhose . I imagine the smell of the foot, I can also imagine the power a woman can have over me if she has really pretty feet”, describes Xavier, which specifies that it is however not naturally to let itself be dominated in its couple. “For me, it starts with the look,” Baptiste says. I often ‘check out’ her legs – she wears quite a few dresses – and I insist that she sleep in panties at night. Also, I ask her quite often to wearing fine lingerie, stockings, garters … And I offer her quite a few. It brings more to our sex life. If she says no to me, I won’t

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“Then comes the touch. And that’s not to displease him,” says Baptiste. When some enter into lengthy negotiations to get their loved one’s taste buds, her girlfriend always has someone ready to satisfy her massage cravings . “In three years of relationship, I believe that not more than two days in a row have passed without her taking advantage of it. It pleases me as much as it does her, everyone finds its account “, continues Baptiste. .

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