I met Jérôme * thanks to a dating site . From the first meeting, at the restaurant, the feeling went well between us: he was nice, he had humor, he was rather hot … And, important point: he seemed completely “normal”. In short, I was seduced.

Soon our budding story lands in bed. And there, Jérôme makes me a somewhat strange confession: “I love to bite, I hope you don’t have a problem with that?” “Always tempted by new experiences (and a little under the spell too, it must be admitted), I give her my best smile:” of course not, indulge yourself! “The fantasy of the vampire, perhaps …

My ass plan is a bite fetishist

Except that if Jerome bites, Jerome bites mostly … hard. He hurts me, I ask him to calm down, he assures me that he will control himself but, in the heat of the moment, he does not succeed and I end this part of legs in the air with tooth marks everywhere. Atmosphere “attacked by a crocodile”, my arms are covered with war wounds. There, any sane person would have said “Ok, it’s unhealthy, I’m cutting ties”. But the truth is, I liked it: it hurt, yes, but it was also very exciting. A little “SM” aspect that I don’t mind!

One thing leading to another, Jérôme has become my sex plan . We see each other regularly and, each time, it’s the same pleasure. I discovered that his fetishism is also expressed on a daily basis: sometimes, for no reason whatsoever, in private or even in public, he bites my neck or my arms. A funny whim that I don’t understand (what pleasure does he find in it?) But which I got used to … And, finally, I find it less bizarre than a foot fetish guy, shoes or wool !

Sexo: honey, tonight I’m a geisha

Mysterious and sensual, geishas are masters in the art of seduction. Object of fantasy, the “living flower” is above all an artist who knows how to awaken desire without ever sinking into vulgarity. For an evening, we are inspired by it.

Cultivate elegance

With her richly decorated kimono, her porcelain complexion and her scarlet mouth, the geisha is the very image of Japanese elegance. Always very sophisticated, the “living flower” is a work of art.

We are inspired by it: composed of a silk kimono (the hikizuri ) and a wide belt (the obi ), the traditional costume of the geisha can weigh up to 20 kilos! To imitate her without complicating your life, put on a pretty embroidered bathrobe or a vaporous wrap-over top. Underneath, we dare a black body adorned with lace, flattering for all silhouettes, to marry with a pair of vertiginous pumps. As for makeup, we adopt the sensual red mouth, a true signature of the geisha. Warning: thin lips will avoid dull reds. On the hairstyle side, a bun (strict or fuzzy, depending on taste) will do the job perfectly, accessorized with a discreet jewel.

Make oneself desired

Precious and delicate, the geisha knows how to be desired: her gestures are languid and her looks speak for her. She cultivates an apparent shyness: also, no question of rushing! The evening has only just begun …

We are inspired by it: for the geisha, foreplay is absolutely essential. And what better than a striptease to arouse desire without falling into vulgarity? For the atmosphere, we put on a multitude of small candles and a stick of incense (jasmine scent, green tea, cherry blossom, Japanese cypress …). Fans of traditional Japanese music will easily find what they are looking for on Youtube – otherwise, we recommend Massive Attack, which stays in the theme. The golden rule for stripping in the Asian tradition is delicacy: we take our time, we avoid direct glances, we do not make sudden gestures and, above all, we do not touch the viewer! We leave our complexes in the closet and, like the geisha, we fully assume our femininity.

To go further … Artist rather than courtesan, the geisha is never naked in front of her audience. The most daring can therefore invest in an open lingerie set that allows hugs without completely undressing.

Daring sensuality

Deceptively shy, the geisha is, in reality, a real femme fatale: in the privacy, it is she who leads the dance! She masters the codes of sensuality and pushes desire to its climax before granting her favors.

We are inspired by it: torrid, the skin-to-skin massage is a preliminary conducive to fiery lovemaking. Concretely, the two partners, naked, cover each other with massage oil (be careful to choose an “edible” massage oil, we find it in most “love stores”) before embracing, covering each other. of kisses … and more if affinities!

Characterized by her restraint, the geisha will absolutely avoid vulgar words. On the other hand, the most imaginative couples will be able to engage in a naughty role-playing game. This is the opportunity to let your fantasies speak .

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